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If you are reading this now, you are probably trying to figure out how to get a girl back after a break up. You have probably decided what to do in order to get your girlfriend back, yet you are still not so sure.

Before you even begin doing anything, it is important to realize this. Giving flowers or telling your girlfriend that you love her is probably not going to work.

Sure, you have probably seen many movies. In the movies, all it takes is the guy giving the girl flower or simply just saying “I love you”. Unfortunately, life is not as simple as what you see in the movies.

What work in movies is unlikely going to work in real life.

Why giving flowers doesn’t work?

Sure, women like to receive flowers from their boyfriend or husband, but this is only appropriate when they are still in a loving relationship. Giving flowers after a break up is unlikely going to work.

She will probably see it as a form of manipulation. Or even worse, she may think you are creepy. Saying “I love you” is not going to work either. It will make you look desperate and weak and she will probably lose respect from you.

Of course, I am not going to say that giving flowers or saying “I love you” is not going to work for everyone. It may work for some people, especially if the break up is just due to a small misunderstanding and your girlfriend obviously still like you very much.

However, for most people, they will probably need a much better plan in order to get their girlfriend back.

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